Valentine day is coming.. So what are your plans for it.
Are you guys planning together or one is planning something to surprise other
I always wonder where does the onus lies in terms of planning things for something which represent togetherness like anniversary, valentine’s.. Is it guy’s responsibility to do something for his darling, or girls’ to pamper her soul-mate.
I find (though I am generalizing), that before marriage, it is always guys who take initiative, and after marriage it is girls.
What do you think.
Are comedy serials just for fun, or can they have some hidden gems of wisdom. I found one very deep conversation yesterday while watching Seinfeld
Jerry: Some people don’t like me.
Mrs Seinfeld: Oh Jerry , why do you say so. People love you. You are good boy.
Jerry: No Mom, I am sure, there are lots of people who don’t like me and I am fine with it.
This statement is simple but has huge implications. I personally, get very upset when some one hates me. Because there is this deep view ingrained inside me by my parents, society, school to be like-able, good to all, helping to all. Continue reading